You know that you're a little more laid back when:
your toddler plays in the dog's water - hey at least he's occupied
you let him pull every plastic container out of the cupboard - at least he's not tugging on me to hold him
your toddler makes a break for it out of the pew - during the Consecration - squealing and laughing with joy all the way to the back door cause Mama is chasing him - and this Mama thinks it was really hilarious! [he was still reprimanded, but... :) ] - not a good thing to be sitting so close to the front... at least it was a weekday Mass!